Tuesday, April 22, 2014


...our wedding anniversary today!

Poor Thad has a yucky cold, and a million things to do at work.  But he got to come home a bit early today and we got to spend some time together--just running a few errands, but still a nice treat for an anniversary that falls on the Tuesday after Easter!

Of course, we'll have a more "official" celebration later this weekend, probably a quiet dinner for two. But today it was just nice to get to be together for the afternoon, especially since we weren't expecting it.  After nineteen years, it's the little things that matter!

Sunday, April 20, 2014

Happy Easter!

Happy Easter!  Just wanted to share a couple of photos from our Easter dinner. (Artistic crafty-blog purists, look away!) This first one should be called "View From My Stovetop:"

Hasselback Potatoes.  Sliced, half a mixture of melted butter & olive oil poured on them & a little salt sprinkled, baked at 350 for 30 minutes while the ham was finishing, then poured the rest of the butter/oil mix on them and baked for about another 30 or so at 425 (because I didn't think they'd finish on time if I didn't crank up the heat).  Served 'em with sour cream to dollop the heck all over the place.  I haven't made them for years (so long ago none of the kids remembered my ever having done so!)  Yum!!

Easter cake made from scratch by Bookgirl, who is much, much better at this sort of thing than her mom has ever been!  A truly wonderful dessert that really stole the show (what, you thought I'd say "took the cake")?

Hope your Easter was beautiful, blessed, holy, and delicious! :)

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Holy Week Blog Break

Just wanted to wish all my readers a most blessed Triduum and a happy and holy Easter!  I'll be away from the blog for a bit.  God bless!

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Writing and procrastination

Last night, I opened up my as-yet unfinished manuscript of book five in the Tales of Telmaja series I'm working on, and discovered that it has been four months since I've even looked at it.

I could blame NaNoWriMo for being in November.  December is never a good "finish your manuscript" month.  But then--what month is?  And given that I usually don't do the "Camp Nano" thing in April or June, what's my excuse, anyway?

I could blame the editing of book two, A Smijj of Adventure, which admittedly did take up most of December.  And technically I haven't even finished yet--because I have yet to release the e-book version.  There's been a technology change since the last time I released an e-book, so I'm still trying to figure out which way to go.  But I also haven't made it a top priority, which is my own fault.  (Thanks, by the way, to the four or five people who have asked for the e-book--your patience is appreciated.)

I could blame life and homeschooling and mothering generally.  We've had more than our share of winter bugs this year (poor Bookgirl is battling another bad cold as I write this).  We've had lots of busy weekends and busier weeks.

But the plain and simple truth is that to be a writer is to be a procrastinator.

Sure, there are a few exceptions.  But most people I know who write, whether for a living or for a hobby, whether successfully or not, admit to being skilled at the art of Putting Writing Stuff Off for other pursuits.  Sadly, some of those other pursuits also involve writing; I'm far from being alone in spending hours dabbling in blogging or other forms of non-fiction while leaving my fictional characters stranded in dire peril for months at a time.

All of this is a long way of saying that I need to get back to my books, and that blogging may be rather more sporadic than usual--and it has been sporadic of late, anyway--while I get my Telmaj back in order.  And there's this other book involving mermaids and vampires that I really do need to finish, too...

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Catholics in the crosshairs of the New Tolerance

As I clicked around the Catholic blogosphere today, I found heartening signs of unity against one of the most pernicious moral issues of the day: the push to normalize homosexual behavior and force a change in the definition and understanding of the word "marriage."

Some examples follow, from:

Carl Olson

Fr. Dwight Longenecker

Jimmy Akin

Patrick Archbold

The American Catholic

There are more posts out there, I'm sure, saying much the same things.  The important point: we Catholics had better expect to be in the crosshairs of the New Tolerance.

After all, our Church teaches that marriage is the union of one man and one woman. She teaches that this is part of natural law, not just part of theology, although her theology of marriage takes this simple natural union and sanctifies it, showing it to be a powerful model of Christ and His Church as well as the vocation which can lead husbands and wives to grow together in holiness as they raise their children to know, love, and serve God.

There is only one kind of union which is marriage, though there are many that pretend to be.  Some of them involve the cohabitation of men and women who are not married to each other; sometimes they are married to other people and can never marry each other.  Other pretend marriages involve same-sex couples; still others involve groups of people who engage in sex acts with all of each other.  None of these things are marriage, because none of them involve the mutuality, exclusivity, permanent commitment and ordering toward procreation which marriage must include to be a real marriage.

Our civil marriage laws are a joke, and have been since the advent of no-fault divorce. There simply can't be a "marriage" in the temporary "union" of a man and a woman who can split up at any time, for any reason, and when this split can be unilaterally ordered by only one of the parties to the marriage contract.  That kind of "marriage" isn't a marriage: it's emotional blackmail.

But from being a mere bad joke that has harmed numerous families, especially innocent children, civil marriage is about to become a dangerous weapon in the hands of the secular totalitarians bent on crushing religion.  It is one thing to give ordinary male-female couples the benefit of the doubt when they say they are married (something lay Catholics generally ought to do, since we are not qualified to be individual marriage tribunals deciding the validity of the marriages of strangers); it is quite another to be presented with two men or two women and told we must participate in the obvious lie that their union can in any way constitute a marriage.  It simply can't, not in Catholic understanding.  And Catholics shouldn't be forced to violate our faith in order to participate in a palpable lie just because the government orders us to.

Things are going to get more difficult from now on.  As someone who has been writing about this issue for years now, I take no satisfaction whatsoever in having my worst pessimism about the state of our culture on issues like marriage justified to the full.  But we Catholics do have to wake up and be ready to stand together, to lay aside such burning questions as whether the pope will wash women's feet on Holy Thursday or whether small financially insecure colleges have an absolute right to the E.F. Mass on campus in order to present a united front against the chill winds that are blowing.  Those winds are from the future, and prognosticate a time when to be Catholic in America will involve being under open attack.  Our ancestors experienced this here in America and in the countries from which many of them fled; our descendants may even have to choose the faith over the nation, and flee from America as well in order to retain the real freedom to practice our faith.  The one thing we have to remember is that we are already standing in the crosshairs.  Just being Catholic will be enough to get you questioned, in the coming days and years, about what kind of Catholic you are and whether you share your Church's "bigoted and intolerant" view of marriage.  We'd better be prepared to give the answer that will resonate in the Kingdom instead of the one that might buy us a momentary and illusory semblance of peace.

Friday, April 4, 2014

Are you now, or have you ever been, a Catholic?

I'm writing this via the Opera (tm) browser.  Blogger (tm) keeps giving me concerned messages about how my browser is unsupported and unexpected things might happen (and suggesting I switch to a supported browser, like, say, Chrome).  I've used Blogger for years, and it will be interesting to see how an "unsupported" browser compares to my experiences on a "supported" one, since those include random crashes, random saving errors, random weirdness with links and pictures, and other charming reminders that human error creeps into technology quite easily.

I've continued to read about and ponder the Brendan Eich/Mozilla situation.  I encourage you to do likewise, in order to understand two important things.  The first is that the gay rights gestapo considers it to be proof of "homophobia" and a firing offense if a person says he or she believes marriage is between a man and a woman--in other words, if a person believes about marriage what Catholics, many other Christians, many Jews, most if not all Muslims, most Mormons, etc. believe.  The second is that some people with whom I disagree on the issue of same-sex "marriage" have denounced the gay rights gestapo for having hounded a good man out of his job simply because he held a political opinion that they did not agree with--a good, and most appreciated, gesture.

I think that the gay rights gestapo has overplayed its hand here.  They have revealed something I've insisted was the case for years now, only to be told by the more irenic supporters of gay rights that I'm paranoid or crazy: that is, that the end game here is to force anybody who thinks marriage is and must be between one man and one woman out of the public square altogether.  Believing what the vast majority of the human race has believed about marriage for at least the past two thousand years has been labeled hate speech, and not just hate speech, but hate speech which must be punished.

That this is a serious danger for all Catholics who accept Church teaching on the nature and purpose of marriage, the sinfulness of all sex outside of marriage including homosexual sex acts, and the impossibility of same-sex "marriage" being anything more than an attack on the natural family and a grave spiritual and moral danger for those who participate in such a thing must be recognized.  The time may be coming when "witch-hunts" will affect the company you work for, and such practices as avoiding meat on Fridays or wearing a crucifix at work will get you interrogated by human resources:

Are you now, or have you ever been, a Catholic?

Do you agree that your Church is wrong about gay "marriage?"

Will you sign this diversity statement repudiating your Church's teaching on gay "marriage?"  If you refuse to sign, do you understand that your continued presence here constitutes a hostile work environment for our valued LGBTQ employees?

Do you recognize that your Church's teachings and your acceptance of those teachings makes you an undesirable employee?  Do you recognize that at the very least you are no longer eligible for promotions or advances, and that it would be in the company's best interest for us to terminate your employment, if you continue to refuse publicly to repudiate your Church's teachings?

Five years ago, people were assuring me that I was crazy and paranoid for thinking anyone would ever lose his job over his support for traditional marriage.  Five years from now, that conversation I have outlined above will be taking place in the human resources departments of every major corporation in America, unless we can stop this push to eliminate, destroy, isolate and punish every person who believes that marriage is between a man and a woman now.  I am as certain of that as I've ever been of anything involving this issue.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

Dear Firefox: You're Fired

The drooling idiots at Mozilla have decided that CEO Brenden Eich's numerous apologies for having ever thought that keeping marriage defined as the union of one man and one woman was a good idea have simply not been enough.  Eich is out; let the idiocrats, moronophiles and sodomy-sycophants at Mozilla begin their period of public celebration.

Meanwhile, those of us whose religion teaches us that marriage is the union of one man and one woman and that "unions" composed of two men or two women are called "public sin" should probably consider using a different browser.  Sure, Mozilla hasn't hung a sign at corporate headquarters saying "Catholics Need Not Apply," but that's probably just because the sign hasn't finished printing yet.  I'll be dumping Firefox(tm) later tonight for a different browser.

I doubt anyone at Mozilla will read the following letter, but I'm writing it anyway:

Dear Firefox:

You're fired.

I hate to do this to you when you've been my browser of choice for the last six or seven years now, but you've left me with no alternative.  Your parent company, Mozilla, has made it clear that people who believe, as I do, that marriage is between a man and a woman, a husband and a wife, a bride and a groom are not welcome to work for Mozilla.  Not even if they are CEO.

This is, apparently, called "tolerance" and "diversity."  You have demonstrated that your brand of "tolerance" means excluding Catholics like me and serious Christians, Jews, and Muslims who share similar ideas about the meaning of marriage from your company.  You have illustrated that what you call "diversity" means ensuring that all of your employes either accept the redefinition of marriage or keep their heads down and their mouths shut about what they do believe.  Such an intolerant "tolerance" and lockstep "diversity" are rarely seen outside of totalitarian entities.

I will miss my Firefox(tm) browser, but honestly, why would I use the product of a company that apparently thinks people like me aren't worthy of employment at that company (or, perhaps, any other)?


Erin Manning